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Corrina T.'s avatar

Loved this! Thank you! I had a similar experience with one of our sons when he was young. He really didn’t handle failure well. It made me look at myself and realize that I wasn’t handling failure well, and his main example was me. Yikes!

I found a great quote in a Steve Hartman “On the Road” segment. https://youtu.be/R0tjVEncJyg Steve is interviewing Gerald Hodges, a kid who learned how to swim as a freshman in high school, and it took him years and a lot of work to be good at it. Gerald told Steve, “If I couldn’t handle not being good at something, then how could I consider myself a successful person?”

I loved that quote! I put it up on my board at school and put one up at home RIGHT by the fridge, where I knew my son would see it multiple times a day. I started actively changing my attitude about failure. My son’s attitude about it started changing too.

I think there is a lot we can do as runners (and parents) to embrace the pain and failure and help it guide us to become better people. 🥰

Hope you are having a great Monday! 👍🏼

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Steph Weiss's avatar

“It’s as if you get a new child every year, if you think about it.” I read this paragraph aloud to my mom, and we both giggled knowingly. I’m over my obsession with running, but I still run and call myself a runner. My latest obsession is marked by the new sewing machine, lovingly (and anxiously) nicknamed the Space Shuttle because it probably has a button for re-entry to Earth’s atmosphere and I just haven’t found it yet. I ‘failed’ a first project but used scissors, MistyFuse, and thread to ‘save’ it. Quilting is notoriously unforgiving of lazy cutting and imperfect seams. Alas, I am lazy and imperfect. And yet, I am a quilter--and a runner, a writer, a cyclist, a racecar driver.... And still, at 62, a new child every year 🤩

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