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Your musings reminded me of Thornton Wilder’s beloved play “Our Town” and the character Emily Webb’s famous and oft-repeated line:

“Oh, earth, you're too wonderful for anybody to realize you. Do any human beings ever realize life while they live it -- every, every minute?”

On the cusp of going to college I felt sad, uncertain and somewhat unwilling to leave home and all that was familiar. My mom, on the other hand, was thrilled at the prospect of having no kids in the house and a looser, freer schedule. Talk about role reversal!

Now that I’m older and more aware of fleeting moments while they’re happening, I take photos or videos and jot down a few words to remind my future self of the emotions or thoughts I felt in that particular moment. I also try to share my appreciation, joy, or gratitude I’m feeling with others while in that moment.

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Addendum:

Best advice which helps me find balance.

An older colleague who noticed how often I stayed late at work would say to me, “Come on, kiddo. It’s time to go home now. You gotta stop and smell the roses more. Work will still be here when you come back in the morning.”

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