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Stephanie Freeman's avatar

My oldest went to college 2 years ago and honestly I was a mess. It was strange because I sincerely wanted her to go and have a big beautiful life. I wasn't sad that she was leaving, I was sad because somewhere along the way she grew up. And yet I love my grown up Molly, she is amazing and she is going to have adventures and mess and all the things. The grief is that she will never seamlessly fold into our lives the way she did before, and while that is okay and honest, it's an end.

I mistakenly thought if I were one of those people that actually cherished those sweet times, that maybe the grief wouldn't hit me so hard. But it did. However, the grief did not show up with regret for which I'm thankful for.

Whether bringing them to preschool/kinder for the first time or sending them off to college (or wherever) it's a series of goodbyes.

Be kind to your heart. Loving these kids as much as we do is wonderful and terrifying. <3

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Frank Garnick's avatar

Parenthood is bittersweet, but I wouldn't trade it for anything.

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