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John Maynard's avatar

It's not something I heard directly; it's a voiceover from Billy Yang in his 2018 documentary called The Why, which explores the reason people run 100-mile races. That quote changed the direction of my running, and it has helped put a lot of things in perspective. Here's what he said:

“When it’s your time, do you want to leave a well-preserved body, or do you really want to use it? A body with stories that says you’ve pushed it, and at times suffered, and you sought its potential.”

It's very Hunter S. Thompson, and I love it.

Terrell Johnson's avatar

So true — very Hunter S. Thompson! Also really, newly relevant in this age we’re living in, with AI swirling all around us. What it means to live and be in the world in our bodies, to enjoy the physicality of living to the fullest, is something I think a lot about lately. This is really well put 👏

Sarah Manley's avatar

So many good bits of advice over the years e.g.

No one else cares (in relation to your pace and sharing runs on Strava etc)- you do you

Run the mile you’re in- great for long runs

Smile- it sends a message to the brain that you’re enjoying it (doesn’t always work…)

Terrell Johnson's avatar

It dawned on me once, during an episode of excessive self-criticism, that not only were the people I imagined to be judging me *not* judging me, they weren’t thinking about me at all — they were thinking about themselves too! 😀

Sarah Manley's avatar

Comparison is the thief of joy isn’t it?!

Carlos Sanchez's avatar

I’d say the advice Homer got from grandpa Simpson is always good to keep in mind. That was something like, “If you ever travel back in time, don't step on anything.”

But something more practical would be from a book I read recently, Meb’s 26 Marathons. It said, “You don’t need to get a gold medal in every workout.”

I don’t follow it too closely, but I like the thought.

Terrell Johnson's avatar

Very, very true (both quotes!)

I especially like the one about not needing a gold medal every time out — it’s counterintuitive, but it hurts us in the long run, doesn’t it?

Doug Beyerlein's avatar

RFM: Relentless Forward Motion. Helen Klein (female pioneer ultra runner) told me this mantra was the key to her success running ultras.

Terrell Johnson's avatar

I didn’t know who Helen Klein is but now I’ve just googled her and… wow! What a legacy she’s left. When did you meet her?

Doug Beyerlein's avatar

I met and ran with Helen at the 1998 Shadows of the Giant 50K trail race near Fish Camp, CA, just south of Yosemite. She was 76 at the time. A great woman.

Cassandra Myers's avatar

Heard a dad say this to his young daughter at a 5k I ran during the race: the mind gives up before the body does. Has helped me an infinite number of times.

Terrell Johnson's avatar

Oooh, that’s interesting 🤔 Love that!

I heard something similar recently; I’ll get it wrong, but essentially it was that our minds routinely lie to us but our bodies never do — so when your body tells you something, you should really listen!

KEN MORRISON's avatar

After 86 years on this wonderful planet, I have have had some excellent advice - did I always listen - that's for another day's discussion. I feel the best advice I've had is from my PCP. Since she is a runner she always has good advice on various aspects of running (hydrate, rotate shoes, etc. But the best advice has been - "you know your body better than anyone else, listen to it!"

Terrell Johnson's avatar

So well said, Ken! 🙌

(I’ve always loved the bits of wisdom your doctor shares, by the way. She should write a book!)

KEN MORRISON's avatar

I'll tell her that the next time we meet!

Stan's avatar

Sounds simple, still works.

When in doubt, for you will have doubt, trust what you know and trust yourself.

Terrell Johnson's avatar

That’s so great, Stan. I think when I was younger, I really did think I’d eventually reach an age/point where I would experience doubt or insecurity anymore. But they’re both still with me, ever-present traveling companions I can never fully shake. We just have to make our peace with them, don’t we?

Stan's avatar

Definitely. We've got to maintin that belief in self, especially when in those "down" moments! Great choice for question...

Christy J's avatar

My husband tells me when I start comparing myself to other runners

“Just run your race and let them run theirs”

Terrell Johnson's avatar

That’s such good advice, Christy — about really everything, right? 😀

Kel B.'s avatar

this was a longggg time ago, and it was from a friend of my sister i think, someone i barely knew and a bit younger than me and she was a really good distance runner. i had asked her something about how she keeps her endurance up after going past 10, 20 miles. her reply was "when i feel good, i go for it". that has always stayed with me. sometimes if i'm just planning on a 5 or 6 mile run but i have the time and i'm feeling good, i'll add on just because i can, and i'm able to "go for it".

hope everyone has some great runs this weekend! and if you feel good, go for it!

Terrell Johnson's avatar

Oh I love that, Kel! Especially because I don’t think I’ve ever quite thought of it that way… that’s brilliant 👏

How to Love a Hellhound (MSok)'s avatar

“It’s just not that serious” suits apparently all occasions! My first mentor teacher related this like a mantra in our 6th grade classes, and I don’t know if it dunk in on the kids. But it subconsciously started working on me!

Terrell Johnson's avatar

I love this, Hellhound! It’s kind of a theme I live by, not even consciously — I think that’s always appealed to me. I think we all take a lot of things far too seriously (and I include myself in that too, as I fall prey to the temptation all too easily myself). Love this ❤️