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Meli's avatar

I like these lessons too. For me, it’s kind of the other way around in that I was a parent long before I was a runner. But lessons I’ve learned that apply to both are:

- take it one day, or mile, or minute at a time when you need to. You don’t need to fret about whether the kid is going to get into college when you just need him to sleep through the night. And you don’t need to fret about whether you can run a marathon when you’ve just started the couch to 5k program and just need to get off the couch.

- no one, no kid, no parent and no training schedule is perfect. “Lighten up Francis”

- there *are* times when sugar is the thing to get you through. Use it strategically.

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Donna's avatar

I learned about a good catch phrase “run the mile you are in” from another runner a couple of weeks ago. It means to be present in the moment while running. I’m a mother of two boys and have a demanding career. Running in the moment has trained me to be “present” when my boys have engaged in a dialogue with me. I’ve learned to focus better on what is in front of me. As I run forward with each step, I look at what’s immediately ahead of me and not distracted by what’s a quarter a mile ahead of me. When my boys engage in dialogue, I stop and listen to them rather than thinking about the next thing I’ll say or get distracted with thoughts of my to do list. I wasn’t good at being present when my boys were younger but I have gotten better at it as I picked up a more consistent habit of running. Training the body to be physically present helps train the body to be mentally present.

Thank you for the discussion on this topic Terrell!

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